Dear Steve and Shirley,
I'm in a situation with my husband and his ex-wife. She came to bring their kids for the weekend, and we had bad weather and tornado warnings. My husband and I had prepared for the storm, and he warned his ex-wife that the weather was going to be bad, but she drove to bring the kids.
Anyway, this big tree fell on our street after she got there, so she was stuck at our house. He was told it could take up to two days to get the tree moved. We didn't have electricity, so their kids asked to sleep in our SUV in the garage so they could watch movies on an iPad.
My husband poured us up some wine so we could make the best of a bad situation. I've always been cool with his ex-wife, and I didn't mind her staying. I made sure she was comfortable in our house. We had wine and cheese and played cards by candlelight.
We were all tipsy and decided to turn things up a notch and play Never Have I Ever. The more we drank, the sexier the game got. I ended up having to fondle his ex, and she ended up giving me a lap dance. My husband orchestrated the whole thing, and he was enjoying it. He suggested we all sleep together to get warm, and I wanted to say no, but I also wanted to see what his ex-wife had to offer.
I don't remember everything we did that night because I was drunk. There was a lot of tension. The next morning, she went to our guest room and didn't come out all day. I took her food and I tried to talk through what happened, but she would not look at me in my eyes. My husband has apologized to both of us, but it's still awkward when we see her.
Should we all go talk to someone?